Don’t give up!
Sometimes, we listen and study the entire thing and yet, it doesn’t make sense and then later on, just a flash of it in the form of a sentence or another, makes it all crystal clear with so much sense,
that’s what revelation through knowledge is, isn’t it?
Lesson: Don’t give up on something you know is right and yet, you aren’t able to assimilate. The way time heals all wounds, it also has the magic to make you understand what’s right and required for you!
Have we ever thought??
Have we ever thought and analyzed our actions?
Newton was very right to point out,
they certainly have reactions!
What are we giving to our generations in legacies?
How can we miss the beauty of relation between our Mind and deeds,
being lost in our fantasies!!
When was it the last time that we spent our time as consciously as our money
Doesn’t the former holds a little more value, and the latter is more like runny!!
Have we ever thought how a part of our lives are enriched with vacuity
Then, we are as much ignorant as the smoker is
We know the hazards, yet we’re ready to be uprooted,
Yeah, that’s the absolute beauty of imitating unfamiliarity!!
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Why should we be conscious of our daily actions?
Why is there a need of awareness in our tasks and moments?
=> Our each leisure moment causes the usage of resources on a scale much larger than we would think.
Breaks, socializing and entertainment are a big part of our lives today, but everything comes with a price tag. Lacking the life skills and being unable to prioritize the necessary or major ones is like an indirect invitation to excess and unwanted theories in our life and sometimes toxic too. And not only this, it also invites the usage of precious earth resources without us getting much benefit or happiness.
For example,
Imagine, you’re a 9 to 5 professional, working from home.
You finish your work and then, start scrolling your social media as a habitual routine. You find hardly 2 posts relevant of total 10 that you see on my feed. Yet, you follow all the 10 accounts and read their posts. Analyze this now for the rest of 8 other posts:
• It consumes time to go through them all;
Instead, you could follow just the 2 accounts and read the posts you liked and you could spend those rest few minutes speaking to your family members,
or learn a new word and enhance vocabulary, or maybe, play a verbal game with your kids, etc.
• It gives you unnecessary information and certainly, no entertainment since you liked only the first two!
• It wastes electricity.
Every unwanted scroll counts for gross to subtle usage like :
the consumption of battery by your mobile to the server storage by sites to create your feed. Maybe that sounds small, but
‘a drop of water is the beginning of an ocean.’
All we have to do to get this right?
》 Just observe ourselves.
》Choose and select valid sources of information or entertainment.
》 Be mindful of our actions.
》 Be thoughtful.
》 And be happy.😊
Are you ‘used to’ or do you ‘accept with love’?
Wishing you all a Happy Menstrual Hygiene Day.
Let’s quickly see what is this remarkable day all about before we dive into the above theme?
According to Wikipedia, this is an annual awareness day on May 28 to break taboos surrounding menstruation and raise awareness of the importance of good menstrual hygiene management worldwide.
I want to bring out a new angle to the approach of women towards their periods or menstrual cycle today, a day that makes every woman feel special. The point is: Along with physical hygiene, a very important aspect is how we deal with our periods mentally.
According to a women’s health website:
“Around 80% of women experience period pain at some stage in their lifetime. You can suffer from period pain from your early teens right up to the menopause. Most women experience some discomfort during menstruation especially on the first day. But in 5% to 10% of women, the pain is severe enough to disrupt their life.”
This indeed gives the women a substantial reason to make the following common remarks regarding their periods:
“I’m tired of this. Every year, more than a month goes over in pain.”
“Why do we girls have to bear this?”
“Oh no, AGAIN and SO SOON!”
“I hate this.”
“I’m sick of the pain and mood swings, and the hardest part is that it doesn’t even get better next time.”
(In fact, the most noteworthy are the ones made by young girls who just had their first real-time experience even before they actually indulged themselves in the biology behind it.)
It’s a rare occasion where a girl feels happy about her periods. It’s hard to deal with the same intense pain every time.
I saw an appreciable post on internet and it said “Don’t be shy; bleed with pride.” I would like to add an unaddressed point to it – and that is acceptance.
Mind and attitude is everything, we all know. And we, as women, also do know how much this natural process is necessary and that it will keep occurring to us every month, no matter how good we curse it. In that case, there is something that can at least make us feel better and that is : “Accepting with love.”
If you ask a woman of 25 years old, she’ll probably say “Oh, I’ve got used to it now,” rather than saying that she is indeed happy to embrace her menstruation cycle; or that she is ready to accept with a smile the pain that is very much a part and parcel of her womanhood. We as women, embrace so many things like our style, strength, confidence, voice, emotions, etc.; and now, it’s time to incorporate our periods too into the same womanhood that we cherish.
There’s a whole lot of difference between getting used to and accepting with love. When you start accepting something with love, you get that extra ounce of energy which will take you miles longer happily. Trust me, when you’ll accept your periods with love, you’ll see yourself smiling and not cursing your womanhood and having a happy day. You may plan to gift yourself a little time and care that you deserve. Sure, your pain won’t vanish but, the mindset that will get changed will definitely help you deal better with the hard time.
Hence, let’s take a pledge today to make our lives better by accepting our periods with love, embracing them with care and celebrating our womanhood as a wonderful dare!
Mamta Garg
Short-term failures!
It’s still easy to accept long-term failures but, short-term failures are those things that keep you knocked off the whole day and are much more difficult to deal with. Each short-term failure that we store in our mind, fills us with a pack full of regrets and negative emotions that hamper our day-to-day growth. Hence, what we’ve got to do is address them with love and acceptance. It’s ok to have not completed your daily task for once, it’s ok if this week wasn’t productive enough. Don’t get dejected but get inspired from short- term failures instead. Make promises to yourself that you won’t break because you have learnt the lesson. Start again with positivity and with the deliberate thought that this time, you’ll definitely be finishing your work and reward yourself with a happy time in return. Focus on day-to-day growth as well along with your vision to move towards your long-term goal.
What life teaches us?
Waiting…
No, probably there is some more to this waiting
Maybe, the dreams will take it a little longer to becoming
But, while this continues hope you will hold your patience
Let not the wait take all your love and kindness, be desirous of making a difference!
Yes, it’s been days and months and years now, but you gotta keep going
Let’s not forget the great monuments that were build in several years and some through lifetimes, and now, they keep shining…
You need the clarity?
You’ll get that.
You need a partner?
You’ll see soon.
You need dream career?
You’ll achieve that.
You need health?
You’ll build immunity soon.
You’ll get all that you deserve and legitimately desire, don’t lose your hope and keep waiting and dreaming!
Who’s He?
Who’s he?
He’s someone who adores me the way I am and yet, honestly criticize the way I be
He’s someone with whom I discover my hidden power of humour and for all my good and bad jokes, I count on him, yeah only he.
Who’s he?
He’s someone I would hug till I’m tired, whose breath gives a soothing pace to my shivering soul and I reach my spire.
Who’s he?
He’s someone, I can praise and insult at the same time, and to him I’ll still sound like a beautiful rhyme.
Who’s he?
He’s someone who is there for me at the middle of day and night
I mean truly when I call his existence my strength and might.
Who’s he?
He’s someone I love unconditionally to fill my jar of capacity fully and I know he does the same, but he dares to make it overflow carefully
He’s someone I confide my trust in and I like the way he handles me and my bag of emotions calmly and yet, powerfully…!!
– thinkinginmyway
Is love conditional?
Love for someone is something which cannot be established as a right or be proved in court; love is that unconditional trust you have in someone regardless of any situation; love is that unconditional giving which will never come to you if you try to catch and always come back to you like an ocean if you set it free! Therefore, unconditional trust is the sole pillar of love which lets the two souls breed together irrespective of any circumstance or distance.
– thinkinginmyway
@Mamta
THINKING IN MY WAY!! 